Last new year, I declared 2011 the year of ‘non-resolve’. I’d spent too many years setting myself up for failure with unrealistic goals. Allowing myself to just live each day as a new one, and experience life being true to myself proved incredibly fulfilling over the last year.

2012 is no different, yet I feel compelled this year to recognize things in my life that could use some improvement. I could definitely use new underwear. I am embarrassed at the state of this part of my wardrobe. I would enjoy a new makeup look, and an updated exercise clothing collection. My office could use an organization overhaul, and I could use a refresher course in housekeeping. I could be more consistent with my parenting, and meal planning. And I could brush and wash my cats so they shed less. I could practice my penmanship, and spelling, and even brush up on my math skills. I could text less and call more, and meet in person and Facebook less. I could get rid of that ugly white table next to my back door, and find a way to make the litter box less of an eyesore. I could eat more veggies without going totally vegan, and drink more Pepsi without getting addicted. I could manage my weight without obsessing over the scale and I could look in the mirror less and accept myself more. I could use more time with God and less time allowing the world to determine my worth. I could love more and hate less and I could accept more and judge less. I could let my son be just a little more independent and I could let him fall instead of pave the perfect path. I could back off on my words and learn to just listen and I could love others for who they are instead of make them something I think they should be. I could be more of an example and less of dreamer. And I could make things happen instead of wishing they would.

Today is a new day and the start of a new year, but that doesn’t change my circumstance. Every moment brings opportunity for choice and change or just the chance to be joyful about where I am right this minute.